Resilience A Conversation About Creativity and Grit Family Dynamics
In Episode 8 of So, Mom…, Adele Griffin and I had the pleasure of chatting with Abbi Waxman, the acclaimed novelist who seamlessly blends humor, heart, and now, crime fiction. As we explored Abbi’s unique creative journey, the conversation turned to themes of discipline, resilience, and the courage to try something new. It was a deeply personal and engaging discussion about how life’s challenges and experiences shape our passions and careers.
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Summary of Episode 8
Abbi shared her fascinating path from advertising to becoming a full-time author, crediting much of her work ethic to the example set by her mother, a crime fiction writer. As Abbi explained, “I learned that if you’re going to write, you work every day, no matter what.” This discipline, paired with a willingness to experiment (or as she called it, “pantsing”), allowed her to tackle her latest genre: mysteries.
As a mother, I resonated with Abbi Waxman’’s approach to parenting, particularly her emphasis on letting her children develop their own paths. This mindset mirrors the values I brought to my work in education: nurturing independence and fostering creativity. When she described her homeschooling experiences, I couldn’t help but reflect on the power of unconventional education to ignite curiosity and growth in children.
Abbi also spoke candidly about how her characters, like Nina Hill from The Bookish Life of Nina Hill, evolve from her own life experiences. It was a reminder that the best stories are often rooted in authenticity. As a writer, she embraces the surprises that come with discovery, saying, “If I’m not surprised, no one else will be.”
This episode delves into the intersection of creative work, life’s unpredictability, and the perseverance needed to see things through. Whether you’re a writer, a parent, or simply someone seeking inspiration, Abbi’s insights will leave you reflecting on how to find joy and purpose in the everyday.
“If I’m not surprised, no one else will be.”
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Don’t miss this heartfelt and inspiring episode of So, Mom…! Dive into the joys, challenges, and surprises of creativity and parenting with Priscilla Sands, Adele Griffin, and their special guest, Abbi Waxman. Subscribe to Apple Podcast or Spotify for more candid conversations on resilience, parenting, and building connections through life’s toughest moments.
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